Thursday, January 05, 2006
Yam Seng 2 - KL (Part 1)
After our
exhaustive to-and-fro trip to Gopeng the day before, we slept through the night
like a log. If not for the
wake-up call from my parents' place that reminded us to go over to help out, we would have slept through the
entire wedding ceremony. We
dragged our sleepy ass off the bed and took a
bath to freshen ourselves before
heading over to my parents' place.

We could see that everyone was busy doing some
last minute preparation for the ceremony. My job was to buy some
ice from seven-eleven as well as driving back to my house for a nice Japanese style
teapot and
cups for the tea-serving (敬茶)
ceremony. Did I mention that my parents' place was
repainted before the wedding? The job was done by none other than
my father with a bit of help from my brothers and sisters. My
creative little sister even painted some
drawing on one of the wall to lighten up the house.

The wedding
entourage arrived slightly pass noon. Funny thing, the "wedding car" had to
park 100m from the house for 10 minutes in order to
wait for the rest of the entourage to arrive before announcing their
grand arrival with their loud car horns. The bride and groom also had to
wait in the car for five minutes before the designated
door-boy (my little brother) remembered to
open the door for them.

As usual, the door-boy received a big fat
ang-pow from the groom for the "amazing task" that he performed. They also
posed in front of the camera so that I could capture some
proof that the
ang-pow was indeed
given and received. Everyone was
ushered into the house for some food, drinks and not forgetting, a well deserved
rest after a
similar tea-serving ceremony in the morning at Gopeng and
traveling for almost two hours back to KL.

After some rest, the bride and groom
continued their "mission" by first standing in front of our
catholic altar where the groom said a
prayer (silently of course) for
blessings from the ONE above. Then, they proceeded to our
ancestors' altar (祖先神主牌) to burn some
incense (上香), so that our ancestors can also witness our
newly added member of our family.

Right after that came the
biggest and longest ceremony of all, the tea-serving thingy. This is also where a huge sum of cash
changed hands. To my calculation, if these money were to be taken into account in our
taxes, then our nation's
economy will be given a
giant boost by weddings alone! This was also when J and I drank
the most expensive four cups of Chinese tea in our lives! I guess there is a price to pay for our "promotion" huh? But come to think of it, weren't we the
same one who
slashed the necks of all our relatives a few years back? LOL!

After the couple served tea to the
elders (长辈) and getting their pockets full, it was
their turn to bleed instead. The couple will be served tea by everyone
younger than them instead. The other star of the day, Little Skywalker was the
last one to walk up to the lucky couple in order
receive his little red packets. He didn't even need to serve any tea to get them!
Lucky him!
When the little "tea party" ended, we proceeded to the
bedroom where Little Skywalker took the
centre stage. He has
two major tasks ahead of him then. The first one was the traditional "breaking of the potty" thingy where he had to "punch" through the
red paper that was wrapped on top a
little potty and take out whatever
stuff that were in it (including another red packet of course). He had
no problems roughing through that thin layer of paper with all his usual
destructive skills.

The second stunt that he had to perform was to
jump on the couple's bed in order to bring
babies luck to the newly-wed couple. Little Skywalker was quite
reluctant to jump on the bed, given the fact that he has
not quite learnt how to jump yet. However, he did tried to
imitate a jumping action by raising both his arms in the air and bending his legs a bit. After that, he was
distracted by a box of
Ferrero Rocher that was placed on the bed instead.

We ended the afternoon by taking a few
family photo (全家福) in front of our house (don't we all look alike). After that, everyone took a
break before another round of
yam seng in the evening.
to be continued...p/s: Yes, I am back! Sorry for being MIA for the past few days as I was worked till death by my boss's last minute thingy...
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